Nuggets of Knowledge (Part 2)
My Precious Child,
Over a year ago I wrote a short list of things that I wanted you to know for certain (travel is essential, coconut oil is a miracle worker, and so on). And now, after another year of life and a little more wisdom, I've thought of a few more.
1. When somebody starts a sentence with "I don't mean this to sound rude but..." or "No offense but..." I want you to walk away. Unkind things are about to be said and you are better than that. You're greater than gossip and stronger than snarky comments. Move on.
2. Don't make your decisions for other people. In the same respect, don't expect others to make decisions for you.
3. Don't perm your hair, lay in a tanning bed, or date anyone who insults your intelligence. Trust me on those. I learned them the hard way.
4. Allow yourself to be lonely. We live in a world of constant connectivity, with a dozen means of communication literally at our fingertips. Disengage from distractions every so often to discover who you really are. There's something beautiful about being disconnected and I can assure you you'll learn more in that silence than anything you find on google.
5. The best time to snuggle a puppy? Anytime.
6. Kindess can change the world. When you want to do something great and you don't know where to start, never forget the power of genuine compassion. Pay for the next person in line. Smile at the person passing you on the sidewalk. Carry someone's groceries to their car. Bring meals to the family experiencing loss or financial struggles. Don't be afraid to ask, "How can I help?"
7. Sometimes a strong cup of coffee and a little chocolate are all the medication you need.
8. Please PLEASE don't get into the habit of apologizing for things that don't need an apology. We ladies do this far too often and it needs to stop. I'm sorry - can you repeat that? I'm sorry - do you know where the bathroom is? I'm sorry.... for breathing. Sorry should be reserved for a moment when you've offended, hurt, or insulted someone. Sorry is a powerful and important thing and it should be used sparingly. "Excuse me" is far more appropriate 99% of the time.
9. Be honest. Tell the truth about what you like, what you're feeling, what you want to change, what you fear, and who you are.
10. When it comes to this advice or anyone else's, take it or leave it. That is your beautiful, God-given choice. You've got an amazing brain in that gorgeous head and you are capable of making decisions for yourself about what's best for you. I'm so proud of you.
Love Always and Forever,
Mom
Over a year ago I wrote a short list of things that I wanted you to know for certain (travel is essential, coconut oil is a miracle worker, and so on). And now, after another year of life and a little more wisdom, I've thought of a few more.
1. When somebody starts a sentence with "I don't mean this to sound rude but..." or "No offense but..." I want you to walk away. Unkind things are about to be said and you are better than that. You're greater than gossip and stronger than snarky comments. Move on.
2. Don't make your decisions for other people. In the same respect, don't expect others to make decisions for you.
3. Don't perm your hair, lay in a tanning bed, or date anyone who insults your intelligence. Trust me on those. I learned them the hard way.
4. Allow yourself to be lonely. We live in a world of constant connectivity, with a dozen means of communication literally at our fingertips. Disengage from distractions every so often to discover who you really are. There's something beautiful about being disconnected and I can assure you you'll learn more in that silence than anything you find on google.
5. The best time to snuggle a puppy? Anytime.
6. Kindess can change the world. When you want to do something great and you don't know where to start, never forget the power of genuine compassion. Pay for the next person in line. Smile at the person passing you on the sidewalk. Carry someone's groceries to their car. Bring meals to the family experiencing loss or financial struggles. Don't be afraid to ask, "How can I help?"
7. Sometimes a strong cup of coffee and a little chocolate are all the medication you need.
8. Please PLEASE don't get into the habit of apologizing for things that don't need an apology. We ladies do this far too often and it needs to stop. I'm sorry - can you repeat that? I'm sorry - do you know where the bathroom is? I'm sorry.... for breathing. Sorry should be reserved for a moment when you've offended, hurt, or insulted someone. Sorry is a powerful and important thing and it should be used sparingly. "Excuse me" is far more appropriate 99% of the time.
10. When it comes to this advice or anyone else's, take it or leave it. That is your beautiful, God-given choice. You've got an amazing brain in that gorgeous head and you are capable of making decisions for yourself about what's best for you. I'm so proud of you.
Love Always and Forever,
Mom
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